I wanted to love them

Like the title says, I really wanted to love these, while they were difficult to get working in sync and are just a tiny bit static-y,  I could've dealt with that easily, but the biggest problem is that they DO NOT stay in my ears!

There was a second set of ear bud covers in a tiny bag that I promptly misplaced. It's *possible* but unlikely that having changed to those would have fixed this issue, as I had another set from a different pair of ear buds that fit and it didn't really change anything. If I ate, talked, yawned or even leaned forward, one or both would pop out and if I got lucky, they'd land in my cleavage so I could find them, if not,  they'd land on the floor somewhere and I'd have to search on my hands and knees. I daren't leave the house with them or I'd surely lose them. 

I HAVE been told my ears are shaped a bit differently than most, so maybe I just don't have deep enough ear...sockets?