This is by far my favorite clitoral vibrator I've ever used, and I've never been shy about trying out new toys either with my partner, or solo. The head on this is unlike anything I've felt before. It's not that tacky sikicony feeling material, it's almost silky soft and literally feels and moves like the skin on a guys you know what! Whatever it is, it feels incredible. It has various vibration/pulse modes to choice from, and I love that the first 3 are Low, Medium & High speed constant steady vibration. The rest are different pulses, but I like that each on fades or crescendos through it's rythym. I really can't recommend the Personal Mini Mushroom Wand Massager - Cordless Rechargeable Electric Handheld Vibrating Magic Massager for Body Relief, Sports Recovery, Muscle Ache, Pink by SHILOSH enough. It would be perfect for anyone, especially as a first toy. The strength will NOT dissapoint you, in fact, sometimes I only use the first two settings. OH! It's amazing quiet too! Overall, the features of this massager are unlike any I've coe across before, it's definitely ahead of the game as far as toys go. TRY IT... You'll thank me later. ;)