I got this practice drum pad for my kids for Christmas. They love to play music but have a little problem with the rhythms. I believe this is going to help them immensely. It is not tiny and has a good weight to it. I think it will hold up well to the practicing of a teen and a pre-teen. I even like it and have spent a little times trying it out. It works well for my purposes and I could see where it would be invaluable for a drummer if he did not have his rig available to practice on. I really like it, and I know my kids will too! I can't wait til they see it.
https://www.amazon.com/Mugig-Practice-Combat-Practicing-playing/dp/B072QXZNSS